Would you go to your bfs/gfs house if your parents said it was ok but sibling says no?
This sounds stupid but i live with my mom and older brother. My brother acts like man of the house and treats the living room like his room. Im decorating my room as thats where i always go when im home. Im 19 and my boyfriend is 21 and we want some alone time, but due to current situations i can not go round to his house and my mom has said i could bring him home as long as my brother doesn't know or is out. Would you sneak around your sibling in this situation? I would stay in my room with him as it is pretty big and homie. If my brother knew he would get angry and start arguments. My brother would not know my boyfriend is there because 1. i have a lock on my door and 2. my brother is always downstairs. I dont always have the money to go out and would like some time to sit down together and watch things like we could before.
Im in college so i cant afford to move out untill next year when i finish, providing i have a job. Plus my boyfriend is looking for a job to save to go to uni next year for a year so getting a place together is out of the question for now. I am concidering a hotel but could only afford to go lie once a month.
Im in college so i cant afford to move out untill next year when i finish, providing i have a job. Plus my boyfriend is looking for a job to save to go to uni next year for a year so getting a place together is out of the question for now. I am concidering a hotel but could only afford to go lie once a month.
My mom has left it too late to put her foot down to my brother. Its ridiculous that my brother should have a say.
normally it wouldnt really matter what your sibling says, but in this case I would do as your mom says and not let your brother know about it if its only going to cause trouble.
Your brother is trying to be protective and probably doesn’t like the idea of a guy his age alone with his sister. But he probably needs to chill out a little bit. You are 19 so maybe you can start looking into moving into your own place or with some roommates – renting a room somewhere so that your brother isn’t in your business.
Well if your mom says it’s ok and she owns the house… your brother has no say so. Just sneak around him if you want or tell him you’re bringing him over and that’s that. If he doesn’t pay any of the bills then he can’t be the man of the house and make the rules. Specially since he’s not your father. Don’t let him boss you around.